The Elegance of a Black Tie Wedding
By Bridget Mora
For a truly elegant wedding, consider a black tie wedding. These very special affairs always begin at six o'clock in the evening or later, and are very formal events steeped in tradition (black tie is not, however the most formal type of event - that would be white tie). Black tie weddings can be any size from intimate to enormous, and in styles ranging from restrained to extravagant. The ceremony could be held in a cathedral, a private ballroom, or even a castle.
Everything should feel a little more special and fancy at a black tie wedding. Set the tone from the beginning with classic engraved invitations. Black tie should always be indicated on the lower right hand of the wedding invitation. Please do not write "Black tie optional", as it only confuses your guests. If you want your wedding to be a black tie event, be clear about it. The attire is really quite easy - tuxedos for the men, and floor length gowns or very dressy cocktail dresses for the ladies. See what Emily Post has to say about black tie attire. The fun part (at least for the bride and the female guests) is the rare opportunity to wear a fabulous full length gown accessorized to the nines. And don't forget to have your hair and nails done - a black tie wedding is a great excuse to pamper yourself, whether you are the bride, a bridesmaid, or a guest. (Maybe that is why they start so late - you might take all day just to get ready!)
It is the details that make a black tie wedding - everything should work together. The music, the flowers, and the food should all feel rich and formal. This does not have to mean stiff or cold; just make sure that your décor suits the occasion. Just as gerber daisies and barbeque would set the mood for a backyard reception, roses or lilies paired with haute cuisine will feel right for an elegant evening reception. And of course, the champagne should be flowing all night long.
The look of the bride will naturally be an important part of setting the stage for a black tie wedding. Her gown should be extremely elegant, in a luxurious fabric like duchess satin or alencon lace. The silhouettes that work the best are either a very full ballgown or a very slim but elaborate sheath. Choosing the right accessories will complete the bride's ensemble. Custom Swarovski crystal necklaces are wonderful choices to accent a formal wedding gown. The crystal will dance in the candlelight, and the range of possibilities in custom bridal Swarovski necklaces created just for you will mean that your jewelry will perfectly compliment the details and neckline of your gown. It is the attention to these sort of special touches that provide the polish for your black tie wedding.
If you and your fiance are hoping to have a memorable and posh wedding, a black tie event is a wonderful option. Whether your style is a reception for 300 guests with a full orchestra or a quiet dinner for thirty with a string quartet, there is a way to host a black tie event that will fulfill your dreams. The bride and groom can still put their personal stamp on their wedding, while the nod to tradition helps to underscore the special nature of marriage.
Bridget Mora writes about jewelry,weddings and fashion for http://www.silverlandjewelry.com She has many years of experience in the jewelry field.
Custom Swarovski crystal jewelry and pearl bridal jewelry are two areas of excellence at SilverlandJewelry.
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